Welcome to My Chaos: The Story Behind IBG and Why I'm Sharing It With You

How Did We Get Here? Honestly? A mixture of frustration, inspiration, and one too many moments of staring at the ceiling, asking, is this it? Making my head spin with questions out of pure curiosity that I wish more people would talk about so that I could only begin to find my way. I was losing myself trying to squeeze into boxes and rooms that frankly, I just didn’t fit into. Thinking that maybe if I change myself enough, I’ll somehow magically understand the whys and hows of navigating life. 

Through the broken lens of what society had taught me, I thought I had a solution.. till one day, I realized…what I needed was right in front of me, or more so… was me, the real, authentic version of me. Makes sense if you were all busy looking through the broken lens to fit the picture... Who is watching the people looking through the lens? And who is going to be the ones to mention.. maybe, just maybe, that system is outdated & flawed. OH RIGHT. THE INTROVERTS!! But no fr, the people who understand that, that looking glass wasn’t meant for you or me, and we were never supposed to be put in those boxes.

Somewhere between navigating early adulthood, feeling overshadowed, and constantly questioning what’s next?, I realized that I needed a space that felt like me. And if I needed it, maybe someone else did too. I think as a society people get way too comfortable with being uncomfortable (Ironic) that we forget that life is what you make it, not what other people tell you it is. I used to love solo adventures, reading, plants, and just existing in my little world. But life has a way of pulling you in different directions, and before I knew it, I was prioritizing everything and everyone else over the things that made me me. Sound familiar? Yeah, that’s why we’re here.

IBG isn’t just a blog—it’s a space for growth, healing, laughter, and vibes. Some days, I’ll be sharing deep reflections on self-discovery; other days, I might be rambling about my latest hyper fixation or a life lesson I learned the awkward way. It’s a balance, just like life itself.

So, if you’re an introvert figuring out adulthood, someone who loves a good mix of humor and wisdom, or just curious about my take on things, welcome. Read, comment, and share your thoughts—this is a space for all of us to grow, reflect, and maybe even thrive (eventually).

Being an introvert isn’t a limitation. It’s a superpower. While the world is busy shouting, we’re listening, learning, and crafting something meaningful. And that’s what THIS is all about! Welcome to IBG!

Now, Imma say this…in this little corner of the internet where I share my thoughts, experiences, and the occasional epiphanies. Let’s be clear: I’m not an expert—I’m not an expert in, well, anything. There’s a solid 90% chance that some of what I say is more opinion than fact (I won’t let you know that though) So if you’re thinking about making life choices based on my ramblings, remember that age-old question: “If your friend jumped off a bridge, would you jump too?” Spoiler alert: I’m that friend. Proceed with caution, a grain of salt, and maybe a helmet. Take what resonates, laugh at the rest, and always think for yourself. After all, I’m just figuring things out as I go—just like you. Also, it is not my intention nor is it in my nature to offend anyone, BUT…. I will be speaking my mind cause if I’m not allowed that, then there is absolutely no point to this! This is not a bully site once these comment sections get posted, if you thought that’s what this was… take yourself to Instagram, this ain’t the platform for all that. NOW LETS HAVE FUN!